Guys! Some Useful Websites for Us Girls
By Briana, age 18, Pennsylvania
Sweet Designs Featured Writer
Editor's Note: All of the sites recommended below have been checked for inappropriate content; some may not be appropriate for pre-teen readers.
As young women, we all can say that this is true: Guys are confusing! Whether we're 13 or 21, I'm sure that we all still have a lot to learn about relationships, flirting, and guys in general. I know that, even being 18, I am not 100% literate on the subject, due to a very early, long-term relationship.
Recently I've taken interest in a guy, but I just can't tell if he likes me back. We're good friends, but his signals seem mixed. I get a vibe from him that he's interested and he does things sometimes that make me feel it's definite. But then again, he does things that I originally thought were signs that he didn't like me. I wasn't sure what to do, so I asked some close friends and family members their opinions. The only problem was that most of those opinions were biased because they know him. So obviously, I turned to the internet.
After doing a little research, I found a few really helpful websites! They give advice on how to tell if a guy likes you, if you're feeling love or lust, how to tell a guy you like him without actually saying it, and more! I hope these help you as much as they helped me!
Teen advice about relationships, love, and dating:
This site has a ton of great advice about love, dating, cheaters, and more! There are also several really good quizzes!
Links 2 Love:
Links 2 Love has a lot of advice in different forms. There are discussion panels, lists, q & a's , quizzes, horoscopes, dating ideas and tips, and more.
This is one of my personal favorites! I've been using this site for years, and it always helps! Not only is there good relationship advice, but it covers other common topics girls like us often wonder about, such as the body, beliefs, peer pressure, friends, etc. There are also a bunch of fun games and quizzes!
COSMOgirl!'s Guide to Guys:
COSMOgirl has a bunch of articles on many different things about guys & relationships, such as "Dating 101: Online Stalking" and "Deal When He Goes to College."
This is a fun little website that has thousands of short, simple tips on tons of different subjects! Whether you're in a relationship, you like someone, or you're getting over a break up, you'll be sure to find something here that will tickle your fancy!
WikiAnswers: How to Know When a Girl or a Guy Likes You:
I quite enjoyed this particular article. It helped me a lot. It's pretty much just a compilation of different signs to look for.
Lastly, I just want to point out that some of this advice may get repetitive. But that's okay, because sometimes reading the same information in a different way may help you to relate to it better! So read, think, and go for it!